The Secret To Desire In a Long-Term Relationship

Ted Talk 

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 Alex Iby

 

In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise. So how do you sustain desire? With wit and eloquence, Perel lets us in on the mystery of erotic intelligence.

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About the speaker

Esther Perel · Relationship therapist

Psychotherapist Esther Perel is changing the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.

 

 

Marriage

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Logical, emotional and “happiness” standpoints

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Cover art, “Two Hundred Years of The American Circus”

Marriage made a lot of sense once upon a time

Mostly when women didn’t have the same roles and rights as men, and were effectively private property (a societal legacy that still influences our oddly-upheld traditions of a bride being “walked down the aisle” and taking her husband’s last name.)

Women didn’t have access to the workplace, so needed financial security. Men had income, but needed heirs.

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This story brings the problem home very clearly.  It helps to remember your partner's good qualities and to celebrate them.


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